On the Good of Widowhood.

 Augustin the Bishop, servant of Christ, and of the servants of Christ, unto the religious handmaiden of God, Juliana, in the Lord of lords health.

 2. Whereas, therefore, in every question, which relates to life and conduct, not only teaching, but exhortation also is necessary in order that by te

 3. Therefore (thus) saith the Apostle, the teacher of the Gentiles, the vessel of election, “But I say unto the unmarried and the widows, that it is g

 4. Lo, there is your good compared to that good, which the Apostle calls his own, if faith be present: yea, rather, because faith is present. Short is

 5. Wherefore also when he was advising married persons not to defraud one another of the due of carnal intercourse lest, by this means, the one of th

 6. Wherefore this in the first place you ought to know, that by the good, which you have chosen, second marriages are not condemned, but are set in lo

 7. But whereas the Apostle, when commending the fruit of unmarried men and women, in that they have thought of the things of the Lord, how to please G

 8. Whence, also, what the Apostle Paul said of the unmarried woman, “that she may be holy both in body and spirit ” we are not so to understand, as th

 9. Learn, therefore, that thy good, yea, rather, remember what thou hast learned, that thy good is more praised, because there is another good than wh

 10. Nor, because I called Ruth blessed, Anna more blessed, in that the former married twice, the latter, being soon widowed of her one husband, so liv

 11. But thou who both hast sons, and livest in that end of the world, wherein now is the time not of casting stones, but of gathering not of embracin

 12. But since, as the Lord saith, “Not all receive this word ” therefore let her who can receive it, receive it and let her, who containeth not, marr

 13. Wherefore they who say that the marriages of such are not marriages, but rather adulteries, seem not to me to consider with sufficient acuteness a

 14. Wherefore I cannot indeed say, of females who have fallen away from a better purpose, in case they shall have married, that they are adulteries, n

 15. Men are wont to move a question concerning a third or fourth marriage, and even more numerous marriages than this. On which to make answer strictl

 16. For that also is no foolish question which is wont to be proposed, that whoso can may say, which widow is to be preferred in desert whether one w

 17. Let us therefore set before our eyes three widows, each having one of the things, the whole of which were in her: let us suppose one who had had o

 18. No one indeed of these six widows could come up to your standard. For you, in case that you shall have maintained this vow even unto old age, maye

 19. These discussions, therefore, concerning the different deserts of married women, and of different widows, I would not in this work enter upon, if,

 20. Wherefore, forasmuch as in the beginning of this little work I had proposed certain two necessary matters, and had undertaken to follow them out

 21. These things I am compelled to admonish by reason of certain little discourses of some men, that are to be shunned and avoided, which have begun t

 22. Now it has been my wish on this account to say something on this subject, by reason of certain of our brethren most friendly and dear to us, and w

 23. If, therefore, you had not as yet vowed unto God widowed continence, we would assuredly exhort you to vow it but, in that you have already vowed

 24. Let the inner ear of the virgin also, thy holy child, hear these things. I shall see how far she goes before you in the Kingdom of That King: it i

 25. The past day returns not hereafter, and after yesterday proceeds to-day, and after to-day will proceed to-morrow and, lo, all times and the thing

 26. Therefore let spiritual delights succeed to the place of carnal delights in holy chastity reading, prayer, psalm, good thought, frequency in good

 27. Indeed in all spiritual delights, which unmarried women enjoy, their holy conversation ought also to be with caution lest haply, though their lif

 28. Go on therefore in your course, and run with perseverance, in order that ye may obtain and by pattern of life, and discourse of exhortation, carr

 29. Next I entreat you, by Him, from Whom ye have both received this gift, and hope for the rewards of this gift, that ye be mindful to set me also in

21. These things I am compelled to admonish by reason of certain little discourses of some men, that are to be shunned and avoided, which have begun to steal through the ears unto the minds of many, being (as must be said with tears) hostile to the grace of Christ, which go to persuade that we count not as necessary for us prayer unto the Lord, that we enter not into temptation. For they so essay to defend the free will of man, as that by it alone, even without help of the grace of God, we are able to fulfill what is commanded us of God. And thus it follows, that the Lord in vain said, “Watch and pray, lest ye enter into temptation;”49    Matt. xxvi. 41 and in vain daily in the Lord’s Prayer itself we say, “Lead us not into temptation.”50    Matt. vi. 13 For if it is of our own power alone that we be not overcome by temptation, why do we pray that we enter not, nor be led into it? Rather let us do what is of our own free will, and most absolute power; and let us mock at the Apostle, saying, “God is faithful, Who will not suffer you to be tempted above what ye are able;”51    1 Cor. x. 13 and let us oppose him, and say, Why seek I of the Lord, what He hath set in my own power? But far be it, that he be so minded, who is sound minded. Wherefore let us seek that He may give, what He bids us that we have. For to this end He bids us have this, which as yet we have not, to admonish as what to seek; and that when we shall have found the power to do what He hath bidden, we may understand, of this also, whence we have received it; lest, being puffed and lifted up by the spirit of this world, we know not what things have been given unto us of God. Wherefore the free choice of the human will we by no means destroy, when the Grace of God, by which the free choice itself is helped, we deny not with ungrateful pride, but rather set forth with grateful piety. For it is ours to will: but the will itself is both admonished that it may arise, and healed, that it may have power;52    Or “be sound.” and enlarged, that it may receive; and filled, that it may have. For were not we to will, certainly neither should we receive the things that are given, nor should we have. For who would have continence, (among the rest of the gifts of God to speak of this rather, of which I am speaking to you,) who, I say, would have continence, unless willing? forasmuch as also no one would receive unless willing. But if you ask, Whose gift it is, that it can be by our will received and had? listen to Scripture; yea, rather, because thou knowest, recollect what thou hast read, “Whereas I knew,” saith he, “that no one can be continent, unless God give it, and this itself was of wisdom, to know whose gift it was.”53    Wisd. viii. 21 Great are these two gifts, wisdom and continence; wisdom, forsooth, whereby we are formed in the knowledge of God; but continence, whereby we are not conformed unto this world. But God bids us that we be both wise and continent, without which goods we cannot be just and perfect. But let us pray that He give what He bids, by helping and inspiring, Who hath admonished us what to will by commanding and calling. Whatsoever of this He hath given, let us pray that He preserve; but what He hath not given as yet, let us pray that He supply; yet let us pray and give thanks for what we have received; and for what we have not yet received, from the very fact that we are not ungrateful for what we have received, let us trust that we shall receive it. For He, Who hath given power unto the faithful who are married to contain from adulteries and fornications, Himself hath given unto holy virgins and widows to contain from all sexual intercourse; in the case of which virtue now the term inviolate chastity54    “Integritas.” or continence is properly used. Or is it haply that from Him indeed we have received continence, but from ourselves have wisdom? What then is it that the Apostle James saith, “But if any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, Who giveth unto all liberally, and upbraideth not, and it shall be given unto him.”55    James i. 5 But on this question, already in other little works of ours, so far as the Lord hath helped us, we have said many things; and at other times, so far as through Him we shall be able, when opportunity is given, we will speak.

CAPUT XVII.

21. Contra Pelagianos, liberum arbitrium sic defendentes, ut negent Dei gratiam. Haec me admonere compellunt cavendi atque devitandi quorumdam sermonculi, qui per aures ad animos multorum serpere coeperunt, quod cum lacrymis dicendum est, inimici gratiae Christi, per quos suadetur, ut nec oratio nobis ad Dominum necessaria videatur, ne intremus in tentationem. Sic enim conantur defendere hominis liberum arbitrium, ut co solo, etiam Dei gratia non adjuti, valeamus, quod divinitus jubetur, implere. Ac per hoc sequitur ut frustra Dominus dixerit, Vigilate, et orate, ne intretis in tentationem (Matth. XXVI, 41): et frustra quotidie in ipsa dominica oratione dicamus, Ne nos inferas in tentationem (Id. VI, 13). Si enim nostrae tantummodo potestatis est ne tentatione superemur, utquid oramus ne intremus vel inferamur in eam? Faciamus potius quod nostri est liberi arbitrii atque absolutissimae potestatis; et irrideamus Apostolum dicentem, Fidelis Deus, qui non vos permittet tentari super id quod potestis (I Cor. X, 13): et resistamus ei dicentes, Utquid peto a Domino, quod in mea posuit potestate? Sed absit ut hoc sapiat, qui sanum sapit. Proinde petamus ut det, quod ut habeamus jubet. Ad hoc enim quod nondum habemus jubet ut habeamus, ut admoneat quid petamus; et cum nos quod jusserit , posse invenerimus, etiam hoc unde acceperimus intelligamus; ne inflati et elati hujus mundi spiritu, nesciamus quae a Deo donata sunt nobis. Proinde arbitrium voluntatis humanae nequaquam destruimus, quando Dei gratiam qua ipsum adjuvatur arbitrium, non superbia negamus ingrata, sed grata potius pietate praedicamus. Nostrum enim est velle; sed voluntas ipsa et admonetur ut surgat, et 0444 sanatur ut valeat, et dilatatur ut capiat, et impletur ut habeat. Nam si nos non vellemus, nec nos utique acciperemus ea quae dantur, nec nos haberemus. Quis enim haberet continentiam, ut inter caetera Dei dona ipsam potius loquar, de qua ad te loquor: quis, inquam, haberet continentiam nisi volens? quia et nemo acciperet nisi volens. Sed a quo detur, ut nostra voluntate accipi et haberi possit, si quaeris, attende Scripturam; imo quia nosti, recole quod legisti: Cum scirem, inquit, quia nemo esse potest continens, nisi Deus det, et hoc ipsum erat sapientiae, scire cujus esset hoc donum (Sap. VIII, 21). Magna ista sunt duo munera, sapientia et continentia; sapientia scilicet qua in Dei cognitione formamur, continentia vero qua huic saeculo non conformamur. Jubet autem nobis Deus ut et sapientes et continentes simus, sine quibus bonis justi perfectique esse non possumus. Sed oremus ut det quod jubet adjuvando et inspirando, qui commonuit quid velle debeamus praecipiendo et vocando. Quidquid hinc dedit , ut conservet oremus; quod autem nondum dedit, ut suppleat oremus: tamen oremus et gratias agamus de acceptis; et quod nondum accepimus, eo ipso quod de acceptis ingrati non sumus, nos accepturos esse fidamus. Qui enim dedit conjugatis fidelibus ut contineant ab adulteriis et fornicationibus, ipse dedit sanctis virginibus et viduis ut contineant ab omni concubitu; in qua virtute jam proprie vel integritas vel continentia nominatur. An forte ab illo quidem accepimus continentiam, sed a nobis habemus sapientiam? Quid est ergo quod Jacobus apostolus dicit, Si quis autem vestrum indiget sapientia, postulet a Deo, qui dat omnibus affluenter, et non improperat; et dabitur illi (Jacobi I, 5)? Sed de hac quaestione, et in aliis jam opusculis nostris, quantum adjuvit Dominus, multa diximus; et alias, quantum per ipsum potuerimus, data opportunitate dicemus.